By DELL ARTHUR
It
is a unique quiet, serene bucolic place. The field appears natural in every way
and wild flowers of every sort bloom and the ground is covered with undisturbed
grass and ferns and weeds and swaying wheat-like strands softly bowing to a gentle
wind. The name of this field is simply called “The Meadows.” It is described as
a natural green burial cemetery.
You
would think that such a place would emote a sense of sorrow, hurt or pain.
True, cemeteries do leave that sense of fatalness but somehow the Meadows conveys
a different feeling; a feeling of peace and rest. The quietness and beauty of
the natural surroundings offset the harsh reality that here consigned are those
who are no longer of this world.
Located
at Ferndale, Washington State, the site is situated at the far-east side to
Greenacres Memorial Park. The Meadow, is a 40 acre piece of pasture land
completely undeveloped and dedicated exclusively for natural burials.
Greenacres, owned and operated
by the Moles family, was originally founded over 100 years ago by John Moles
and has continued service to the community throughout all those years in many
ways. Currently the great grandson, John Moles, is president of the
organization and a few years ago, with the assistance of his general manager in
charge of The Meadows Brian Flowers, came about the first such natural cemetery
of its kind as a natural burial ground in Washington State and it is only one
of 12 such sites in the United States.
“I come from a cabinet
and furniture making background and came in contact with John who wanted to
purchase plain pine caskets,” Flowers explained. After discussion about the
lack of such a burial site, Flowers soon joined the funeral home and was instrumental
in development of “The Meadows.”
Flowers, an affable
caring man said that the reason for the development of such a burial site was a
genuine need. “There are many people who wish to be buried in a way that gives
them a closer relationship with the land, and there are others who have
ecological reasons,” he said. Also there are many who believe in the scriptural
principal of “ashes to ashes and dust to dust.” Whatever the reasons, most
family members left behind wish to be entombed the same way.
Flowers said that those
who choose to be buried at The Meadows are given several choices. However,
there are certain requirements as well. Decedents must not have been embalmed
or if they have, the procedure must have been with nontoxic products. As for burial containers they must be 100 per
cent biodegradable and non-toxic. No metal caskets and fasteners or synthetic
linings or formaldehyde glues or high volatile organic compounds are allowed
according the companies brochure. As a result the funeral home has three
choices for internment; a plain pine casket; a hand woven wicker or other
natural material container or a burial shroud made of muslin and Irish linen.
There are no prohibitions for those who wish to construct their own caskets as
long as they meet the required standards. About 70 percent of people choose to
be buried in a shroud, Flowers said.
Regarding tombstones;
again every natural material is incorporated. Most headstones are river rock
boulders weighing anywhere from 100 to 500 pounds. Individual or two people
inscriptions can be engraved depending on the size of the rock. The boulders are
harvested from a river source and not from a quarry. This, said Flowers,
conforms to the natural aesthetic and environmental specifications of The
Meadow.
In addition Flowers said
families can choose any tree, shrub or groundcover from a list the cemetery
furnishes. According to the funeral home families and loved ones are encouraged
not only to participate in the planting of these “living memorials,” but also
assist in the actual burial as well.
When the deceased is
prepared it is placed on a wood carrier that has been used since the late 1890’s,
and transported to the gravesite. Originally this same cart was used to
transport caskets from town to the outlaying cemetery covering a distance of
over three miles. Mourners would follow behind accompanying the casket. Today
the same procedure is used by Greenacres. Once reaching the grave site family
and friends surround the open grave and commence services. Once completed the
body is usually lowered, with the help of friends and family members, into the
final resting place and then filled.
“We encourage families
and loved ones to participate in the closing of the grave if they choose,” Flowers
said. He believes there is a certain therapeutic benefit when the family
actually takes part.
As for himself Flowers
plans to be interred at The Meadows when the time comes. And as his business
card says, it is “The natural way to say goodbye.”