By
DELL ARTHUR
Life is full of twists and turns.
Just when a person thinks they have things figured out there comes a curve ball
from left field that unexpectedly changes everything. Such was the case with
Kathy Vetter.
The area that drew her interest from
the earliest start was the criminal justice field—a field that was challenging,
exciting and at times dangerous. Her clients included incarcerated convicts and
recently paroled prisoners who required close supervision. Her charges included
murderers, rapists, thieves of every sort including con men. Some of these
people were for the most part violent, aggressive and whose responses were
unpredictable. She found the work stimulating and exciting. But after working so
long in this atmosphere she reached a point where she needed to take some time
off.
“A lot of factors made me want to
take a break,” she recalled as she sipped a cup of coffee at a local
restaurant. “I had to attend a couple of murder trials and it took a lot out of
me. It was the perfect storm and that was when I decided to take break.”
Reflecting on the past she admitted
there was a certain excitement in counselling. But after many years working in
the field she felt it was time for a younger generation to take over. The
constant stress had taken its toll. Trying to help released inmates adjust to
the “outside” and find a job was especially difficult she said. She noted the
recidivism rate was over 50 per cent and many of the people she tried to help
used the jail system as a revolving door. They seemed just as happy behind bars
as on the street. It was then she decided to take a year’s leave and relax and
recharge.
“It took about four months to wind
down. My dad said he hadn’t seen me so calm in years,” she mused. Stress was
slow to wear off. Two of the major helps in her adjustment to a “normal life,”
was her Shih Tzu pups. Vetter had been involved in breeding this line of pure-breeds
for some time and it was then she came up with the idea of doing something with
animals. Exactly what she didn’t know but the idea tugged at her.
The
hiatus she originally planned hadn’t taken into account that nothing was going
into the bank account. Now that she found herself “unemployed” she had to do
make a living—and quickly. Breeding was a selective process and she wasn’t
interested in becoming a “puppy mill!” Her love of animals was too great to do
that. Then she came up with the idea of pet grooming.
“I
had a friend who was a groomer so I told her what I had in mind. I also thought
if I learned grooming I could save a lot of money just on my own two dogs,” she
said with a laugh. That, she quickly learned was wishful dreaming!
So
under her friend she began her apprenticeship. Some junior colleges offer
courses in the grooming profession but usually offer only the basic training.
There isn’t a state in the union that requires pet groomers to be licensed but
that doesn’t subtract from the high quality of professionalism needed to be
successful. Apprenticing under the direction of a quality groomer teaches the
student all aspects of the profession and here Vetter had an advantage.
The
first thing she learned was how to wash animals, clean cages, sweep floors and
all the mundane essential areas of dog and cat care in the grooming
environment. She learned that washing pets was more than simply putting them in
a tub and adding soap. She learned how to work with different coats, what type
of shampoo to use, to identifying skin problems and much more.
And there was the cost! When she
started actual trimming she needed to purchase the necessary implements--shears,
combs and brushes. None of these items were cheap; in fact the cost could put a
healthy dent in anyone’s bank account. You don’t pick up these things at the
local department store she noted.
Shears alone could cost over $100
for just “shop” usage. For show quality styling a pair of shears can easily
cost $700 or more. And then there was the necessity of purchasing dryers, nail
clippers, nail files and grinders, different combs—some constructed of steel or
carbon fiber depending on the need for different length and types of hair. And
then there was the learning process of how to use these implements.
As far as products, ranging from
shampoos, conditioners and dyes, Vetter found that the quality and cost of
these items matched those found in the most expensive beauty salons. But all
was needed; a pampered pet is the goal.
Finally she had an opportunity to
learn the actual trimming and styling end of the business from a master
groomer.
The biggest benefit of her new
career was “turning a high pressure job to a low pressure job,” she recalled.
Now she wasn’t confronted with midnight calls from the jail, no more threats from
a mentally disabled criminal, no more heartbreak at the failure of one of her
former “clients” being sent back to prison because he simply couldn’t adapt to
“the outside.” This new pressure was a joy in comparison.
Sitting back in the booth she reflected,
“You have to read your emotions. This isn’t a job for someone who doesn’t love
animals.” And that she dearly does. Once she had advanced to learning how to
groom and trim she was more than eager to practice her new skills.
Working under a master groomer she
was introduced to the different styles fitting the subjects. She learned the
complex Continental cutting style for poodles, the English saddle, Dutch and
German trim and much more—all of these special styles enhanced the beauty of
the animal’s breed. She then learned how to dye; some customers had special
requests about color and she learned how to master these needs. And working
with “mutts” she said is especially delightful. After going through her shop
these so-called non-pure breeds come out looking like winners of the world’s
most famous dog show.
As her experience expanded she tried
her hand at creative styling. “The great thing about this type of cutting is if
you make a mistake at least it will grow out!” she said with a laugh. And mistakes
were made but it all added to her education in becoming an artful groomer.
“What I learned with specialty grooming was trying to create a style reflecting
the owner’s personality.” And here she excelled.
Then about eight years ago she
decided to open her own business. She settled in the small town of Ferndale in
Northwest Washington, where her business quickly grew. Clients were attracted to
her shop not only for the high quality of her work but also her personality.
Vetter is a member of the Chamber of Commerce Ambassador program, the Old
Settlers’ Festival, the town’s annual Street Festival and other community
organizations. She also joined several professional grooming associations and
spearheaded many community projects. But here her altruistic feelings had other
unexpected ramifications.
“Now and then when I’m downtown I
will come across a client who I haven’t seen for a while only to find out the
reason they haven’t been in was because their pet had died.” When a pet parent loses their priceless pet,
Kathy grieves with them. And, if later, this former customer comes in with a
new” family member,” it’s a joy shared by all.
What an interesting and articulate article! As we grow older, we gain a deeper sense of who we are, our unique design, and what our passions truly are. It's encouraging to hear the story of an individual who has traveled through the challenge of a midlife career change and is following her dreams.
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